Finally, our first official WWBJD! The plan for these is to ask Brody a question about love and relationships that I’ve received from one of you, and I’ll share with everyone his word-for-word response (I figure it’s always good to get a guy’s perspective too — and his can also be pretty entertaining!).
Q: So this question is for you/Brody. Obviously your looks caught Brody’s attention right off the bat, but what made him actually want to settle down and date you. What qualities do you think make a girl “dateable” and not just a “hook-up?”
BJ: Well, first of all, everyone has their own tastes, their own likes. When you meet a person it’s all about chemistry: it’s either there or it’s not. You’re either compatible or you’re not. Then if you are, you either like things about them or you don’t — and you’re either willing to work on those things or you’re not. Like when I met Kaitlynn, I didn’t want another girlfriend at all — I was so ready to just hang with the boys. But the chemistry was there and I didn’t want to let that go.
Once I know there’s chemistry, I just really want to be with someone who’s loyal and honest. Somebody that no matter what their past is and how many guys they’ve been with they’re honest about it (I don’t want to have to do those multiplication games!). Somebody trustworthy. Someone who has a close relationship with their family. Intelligence is attractive (this is probably the #1 difference between a hook up versus a girlfriend). It would be nice if somebody really enjoyed cleaning up around the house/doing dishes/making me breakfast in bed (Editor’s Note: LOL). But the most important thing is loyalty.